What I Learned Working at a Gentlemen's Club
I started working at the strip club because I knew many of the girls there and it seemed like a really fun job. During my interview I met with a really great owner who let me know that his dancers were his most important asset and i could tell that he meant it. In fact, Exotic Kitty has always made me feel that I was a valued member of the team. I also loved that the club was clean and really fun to be at. I was proud to be a dancer and proud where I worked.
It is not secret that strip clubs are trying to find the best dancers who are very exciting for their clients. The better the dancers, the more money the club makes. I am a very pretty girl with a great body so I was a perfect fit. However, I always felt my best attribute was my personality. I knew that men would want dances from me and I also knew that they wanted to have my companionship.
Working in the club is not easy, you are on your feet for hours. You are dancing, chatting, laughing and being engaged with many people all night long. It is a very fun job but physically draining. I also kept my body tight by going to the gym and eating healthy. I always took my job seriously and tried to be the best. At the end of the day, I made really good money and had a job that I really enjoyed.
Many girls start out as a waitress or some sort of staff member but the money is in being a dancer. I started out on top and it stayed that way for years. As I have watched my fellow dancers over the years and they come and go but i made so many friends I can't count them all. We all take a job at a strip club, get dressed in next to nothing, make a small fortune and then move on with life. You can't dance forever, but you can dance for many years. It is also the perfect job for college students. Great money and you can go to school during the day. It was always really easy to set a day schedule while I worked at night.
I tried a couple of other positions such as waitress, I worked at a small start up during the day, I even helped my friend at a store he opened but I was made to be a stripper. It was not difficult to speak to the customers and just enjoy my nights. I was able to take days off when I needed too and I went on vacation whenever I wanted. That is the best part, come and make tons of money and then enjoy life.
There were times that I felt self-consciousness and that was always a funny thing until I locked it down. It didn't take very long until I learned to love everything about myself. I was a sexy girl with a great personality. I was able to leverage that and get paid for my looks. There is nothing wrong with that, everyone inside the club knew the deal. We all worked or attended a fantasy land. I learned quickly that I was in charge of my own life.
It's true I watched married men come in for a dance and companionship. I sometimes ended up being a marriage counselor during my interactions. Generally married men had favorites and it gave them a break from life. These guys like a few dances but they are really there for the talking. I would sit on their lap and listen to their day. It was good for both of us. I was able to make my money and they were able to connect in a fantasy.
Of course there are single men that would come to the club. There were businessmen, travelers, tall, small, fun, quiet, etc. There were all shapes, sizes and types of men. It was awesome to meet them all. they would come in throwing one dollar bills or slipping one hundreds into my g-string. It was awesome to jsut entertain and then leave to my normal life.